SOS PRE-MARITAL COUNSELLING PROGRAM
(A PRE MARITAL COUNSELLING PROGRAM FOR COUPLES OR INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED)
This is an intensive program lasting 4 weeks to prepare both the bride and groom for a successful married life ahead.
This is a crucial pre marital program for anyone who wants to learn how to do marriage right from the onset. In the program, both couples will attend an hour and thirty minutes sessions each week for a total of 4 weeks. The sessions will follow a guided template set by Nafisa but also take into the couples background and desires for the future.
The goal of this program is to ensure that both parties have the information, advice, guidance and tools needed to go into marriage being well informed and having the appropriate expectations so that they can create a thriving home insha'Allah.
(Exclusive offer for this program only) Both couples will need to commit to attending both lessons and a video recording of these sessions will be available for them both to take with them at the end of the program. The video recording will be available for them to access up until 12 months after the program. The couple will also get a free pdf of contract of agreements, summaries points from the sessions and other useful advice in their package.
This program is couples or individuals who are ready to take marriage seriously, see beyond the wedding day and intentionally plan for a successful marriage life with Allah’s help.
It is also best for those who not just seeking information but desiring an emersive program tailored to their needs as a unique couple.
The investment for this program is £390 - see US dollars equivalent at the bottom of this page.
*THIS PROGRAM IS BASED ON THE ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE OF MARRIAGE
EXPECTED OUTCOMES INSHA’ALLAH
As you consider investing in this intensive 4-week pre-marital program, it’s essential to understand the transformative outcomes that await you and your partner. This program is designed not just as a series of sessions but as a comprehensive journey towards building a successful marriage. Here’s what you can expect:
Comprehensive Understanding of Marriage
Throughout the four weeks, you will gain a deep understanding of the fundamental aspects of marriage. Each session is structured to cover critical topics such as communication, conflict resolution, financial management, and emotional intimacy. By the end of the program, both partners will have a clearer picture of what it means to be married and how to navigate the complexities that come with it.
Tailored Guidance Based on Your Background
Recognizing that every couple comes from different backgrounds with unique aspirations, this program offers personalized guidance. Nafisa will take into account your individual histories and future desires, ensuring that the advice and strategies provided are relevant and applicable to your specific situation. This tailored approach helps in addressing any potential challenges that may arise in your marriage.
Development of Essential Skills
One of the key outcomes of this program is equipping both partners with essential skills necessary for a thriving relationship. You will learn effective communication techniques that foster understanding and empathy between partners. Additionally, conflict resolution strategies will be taught to help you manage disagreements constructively rather than destructively.
Setting Realistic Expectations
Entering marriage with realistic expectations is crucial for long-term success. This program aims to clarify common misconceptions about marriage and provide insights into what each partner can realistically expect from one another. By establishing these expectations early on, couples can avoid disappointment and build a stronger foundation for their relationship.
Tools for Building a Thriving Home
The ultimate goal of this pre-marital program is to prepare you both for creating a loving and supportive home environment. You will receive practical tools and resources that can be implemented in your daily lives together. These tools are designed to promote harmony, mutual respect, and shared goals within your marriage.
DID YOU KNOW: STUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT THOSE WHO TAKE PRE MARITAL COUNSELLING ARE OVER 30% MORE LIKELY TO HAVE SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES VS THOSE WHO DON’T!
By committing to this 4-week pre-marital program, you are taking an important step towards ensuring a successful marriage filled with understanding, love, and partnership. The knowledge gained here will serve as a solid foundation upon which you can build your future together.
Benefits of the Program Structure
PROGRAM STRUCTURE
The program structure is built to be significantly more beneficial for you. This extended time allows us to not only cover the material in depth but also gives you the opportunity to process the advice provided. You will have ample time to ask questions, which enhances your understanding and engagement with the content. This interactive approach ensures that you are not just passively learning but actively participating in your growth.
Enhanced Participation
With this structure, we can foster a more dynamic dialogue where your thoughts and concerns can be addressed in real-time. This means that you won’t leave a session with lingering questions or uncertainties; instead, you’ll feel confident about what you’ve learned and how to apply it.
Homework Between Sessions
Additionally, I am excited about the prospect of setting couples homework between our sessions. This will allow you to practice what you’ve learned in a real-world context, reinforcing your skills and insights gained during our time together. It creates an ongoing learning experience that extends beyond our meetings, helping you to integrate these lessons into your daily life effectively.
In summary, this program structure is designed to maximize your learning experience through active participation and practical application with an Islamic and counselling perspective. I look forward to working with you on this journey!
My philosophy has always been that prevention is better than cure. this is an investment on your marriage that you should not compromise on. No matter what plans you have for THE wedding.
We will tie our camels, PUT OUR TRUST IN ALLAH and avoid being a part of the negative MARITAL statistics INSHA’ALLAH.
How Sessions Take Place
All of the sessions listed above are private 1:1 sessions. Sessions, including packages, can be done via Skype, WhatsApp or phone. I have a limited amount of in-person sessions. I take pride in every single one of my clients and I only take on clients that I feel are right for the Programs. I am dedicated to giving my best, therefore; I expect all of my clients to show up, even when they feel like giving up and together, God willing, we can make the difference.
Payment
For new clients, the first session payment must be made in advance prior to meeting. All future payments can be arranged after our initial meeting for programs only.
Payment plans are not available under the single sessions plan. Missed single sessions without 24 hour notice or no notice within that time frame from the client are non refundable.
Sessions are payable by cash, cheque or electronic bank transfer. The full fee will be charged for appointments cancelled with less than 24 hours notice. All packages are payable upfront without refund.
Links to make payment will be forwarded during booking insha’Allah.
HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO SEE A CHANGE?
The process is different for each individual so the length of time varies. On average clients work with me from 1- 3 months followed by monthly check-ins. I see the most change working with clients that can commit to once per week for the first 2-3 months. From there some clients may come once or twice per month. It all depends on the individual. Coaching is a collaborative experience so the more willing you are to be engaged in the process the deeper and quicker we can move forward. But please remember that everything has its own time so it is important to honour what feels best for you.
Moving forward, if you find value in your session with me and you believe that it can also help someone else, then share your experience of these courses with them and perhaps you may be a means for them to thrive in their lives also with the permission of Allah.