The Retreat for High-Achieving Muslim Women Who Are Ready to Soften Without Losing Their Strength
Whether you're struggling to connect in your marriage or attract the right husband; deep down you know, its the same issue: YOUR MASCULINE ENERGY!
MARRAKESH, MOROCCO | APRIL 2026 | VERY LIMITED SPACES AVAILABLE
You've built an empire. You lead teams. You make decisions that impact thousands. You're the woman everyone comes to when they need something done.
But in your relationships? The very qualities that make you successful are working against you.
If you're married: You see it happening. The way your husband pulls away when you problem-solve his challenges. The defensiveness when you make decisions without him. The silence that grows between you no matter how hard you try to "communicate better."
If you're single: The "suitable" men you meet either feel intimidated by your success or they disappear after a few dates. The ones who do pursue you? They're either beneath your standards or they want you to dim your light. You're told to "be more feminine" but you have no idea what that actually means beyond wearing dresses and smiling more.
You're exhausted from being "on" all the time. And the moment you try to soften? It feels forced. Inauthentic. Like you're betraying the woman who got you this far.
Here's what you need to understand: You don't have a feminine problem. You have a translation problem.
The communication style that earns you respect in the boardroom creates disconnection in your bedroom and repels the very men you'd actually want to marry. And no amount of "just relax" or "be more vulnerable" advice will help you bridge that gap without the right framework.
Elevated Feminine Muse Introduces:
ELEGANT ESSENCE RETREAT MARRAKESH MOROCCO 2026
MARRAKESH, MOROCCO | APRIL 2026 | VERY LIMITED SPACES AVAILABLE
This Isn't a Spa Weekend. This Is a Strategic Communication Recalibration
The Elegant Essence Retreat is a 4-day immersive experience designed specifically for high-achieving Muslim women who need practical, Islamic-aligned tools to restore emotional intimacy in their marriages or attract emotionally available, high-value men for marriage.
This isn't about changing who you are. It's about learning when, where, and how to access different parts of yourself—so you can lead powerfully in your career and be soft, cherished, and pursued in your relationships.
What makes this different from every other "women's retreat":
We're not teaching you surface-level self-care rituals. We're rewiring the communication patterns that have been sabotaging your relational success while building your professional success. This is trauma-informed, psychology-backed, and rooted in Islamic principles of feminine leadership.
If you're married: You'll leave with a precise framework for communicating in ways that create closeness instead of conflict, tools for transitioning between your masculine and feminine energy states, and the confidence to ask for what you need without controlling, nagging, or mothering.
If you're single: You'll understand exactly why the men you want aren't pursuing you (and why the wrong ones are), how to communicate in ways that inspire a man's pursuit rather than his retreat, and the energetic shifts that make you magnetically attractive to high-quality, emotionally available men.
The Transformation You'll Experience
WORKSHOP 1: The Masculine-Feminine Energy Shift
Learn to identify when you're operating in masculine energy (and why it's pushing your husband away or repelling suitable suitors) and how to consciously transition into feminine receptivity without feeling weak, passive, or like you're "faking it."
Specific outcome for married women: You'll master the art of being decisive at work and receptive at home without personality-splitting or losing yourself.
Specific outcome for single women: You'll understand the energetic frequency that attracts emotionally available, leadership-oriented men who want to pursue you (not the ones you have to chase, convince, or mother).
WORKSHOP 2: High-Value Communication Essentials
Discover the 3 communication patterns high-achieving women use that trigger defensiveness in men (comparison, correction, and control) and learn the elegant alternatives that create safety, trust, and emotional intimacy.
Specific outcome for married women: You'll know exactly what to say and what to stop saying to invite your husband into deeper connection rather than pushing him away with "helpful" advice.
Specific outcome for single women: You'll learn how to communicate in early dating that inspires a man's pursuit, investment, and commitment instead of accidentally positioning yourself as his therapist, career coach, or mother figure.
WORKSHOP 3: The Powerful Art of Feminine Influence
Master how to ask for what you need, set boundaries, and guide your relationship toward your vision without nagging, managing, or mothering using principles of Islamic feminine leadership.
Specific outcome for married women: You'll learn how to lead from behind the most powerful position in a marriage where your husband feels like the man while you shape the direction.
Specific outcome for single women: You'll know how to screen men effectively, set standards without being rigid, and inspire pursuit without playing games—positioning yourself as the prize while remaining gracious and warm.
WORKSHOP 4: Embodiment Practices for Nervous System Regulation
Implement practical, trauma-informed techniques to release the chronic stress and hypervigilance that keeps you stuck in masculine energy, so softening becomes natural rather than forced.
Specific outcome for married women: You'll have tangible tools to downregulate your nervous system on demand essential for women whose bodies have learned that relaxation isn't safe.
Specific outcome for single women: You'll learn how to embody the calm, grounded feminine energy that naturally attracts secure, emotionally available men even if your nervous system is wired for hustle and hyper-achievement.
Your Luxurious Sanctuary in Marrakesh
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Tranquil Sanctuary: A Luxurious Villa
Nestled in a tranquil setting, our exquisite villa offers an idyllic sanctuary for women seeking relaxation and rejuvenation. The open-concept living area is bathed in natural light. The beautifully landscaped yard boasts a shimmering private pool and multiple lounging areas where guests can soak up the sun or enjoy alfresco dining under the covered patio. This villa not only embodies luxury but also fosters connection and tranquility, making it an ideal choice for a feminine retreat focused on self-care and bonding in a serene environment.
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Concierge to & from the airport
Upon your arrival in Marrakech, one of our dedicated concierge team and one of the sisters in charge will be waiting to warmly welcome you at the airport. We understand that traveling can be both exciting and exhausting, so we have arranged for a seamless transfer to your villa, ensuring you start your retreat in comfort and style. Our professional driver will assist you with your luggage and guide you through the vibrant streets of Marrakech, allowing you to relax and soak in the atmosphere as you make your way to your luxurious accommodation. As your departure date approaches, rest assured that we will also coordinate a timely return transfer to the airport, making sure your journey home is just as effortless. Our goal is to facilitate your peace of mind insha’Allah.
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Culinary Delights Amidst Breathtaking Views
Savour exceptional Moroccan cuisine accompanied by stunning views and thoughtfully crafted culinary experiences that spark memorable conversations. All meals are included plus snacks so no need worry. All meals are halal and special requests for vegetarian, vegan or gluten an be provided for. Have certain food allergies? these too can be taken care of for your peace of mind.
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Empower Your Voice: Mastering Feminine Communication Skills
Discover and implement advanced feminine communication techniques through engaging in-person workshops. Open your mind to innovative ways of conveying your message effectively as a woman, enhancing your relationship success.
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Revitalizing Spa Experience
We know that you are a hardworking woman, always caring for others so we want you to be cared for whist you stay with us. Enjoy a rejuvenating spa journey that invites you to unwind, replenish your energy, and completely engage with the tranquil opulence of your environment.
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Lifelong Friendships
As you prepare to embark on this transformative feminine retreat, envision the incredible opportunity that lies ahead to forge lifelong friendships with like-minded women who share your passions and aspirations. This gathering is not just about personal growth; it’s a sacred space where you can connect deeply, share stories, and support one another in a nurturing environment. Embrace the chance to engage in meaningful conversations, participate in collaborative activities, and create lasting bonds that will enrich your life long after the retreat concludes.
Meet Nafisatu Akilu
ABOUT YOUR GUIDE
Your guide for this transformative journey is not just a retreat host she's a certified trauma-informed relationship coach, psychology graduate, and the trusted voice behind one of the most influential platforms for Muslim women's relational healing.
Why Precious is uniquely qualified to lead this retreat:
167,000+ YouTube subscribers who trust her weekly guidance on feminine development and relational trauma recovery
Psychology degree + trauma-informed certification, allowing her to bridge academic knowledge with practical, spiritual application
5+ years specializing in high-achieving Muslim women who excel professionally but struggle relationally
Creator of the Reviving Nikka marriage restoration framework, integrating Islamic principles with modern therapeutic approaches
Proven track record helping professional women recalibrate their communication patterns and restore intimacy in their marriages
Sister Nafisa understands your specific struggle because she's worked with hundreds of women just like you. Women who are brilliant, accomplished, and respected in their fields but exhausted, unseen, and disconnected in their most important relationship.
Her approach is never about making you smaller. It's about making you fluent in the language your marriage actually speaks.
This Retreat Is For You If:
This Retreat Is NOT For You If:
✓ You're a high-achieving Muslim woman (executive, entrepreneur, professional) who's "successful" by every external measure but struggling in your marriage or unable to attract the caliber of husband you actually want
✓ You recognize that your masculine energy (the drive, decisiveness, and leadership that serves you professionally) is creating distance with your husband or repelling high-value men who would be suitable partners
✓ If you're married: You're tired of "communication advice" that doesn't address the real issue you're speaking a language your relationship doesn't understand, and the distance is growing
✓ If you're single: You keep attracting men who are intimidated by your success, emotionally unavailable, or beneath your standards—while the men you'd actually respect aren't pursuing you
✓ You're ready to invest significantly in yourself and your relationships not just financially, but emotionally and practically
✓ You want Islamic-aligned guidance that honors your strength while teaching you how to access your softness
✓ You're coachable, open to examining your patterns, and willing to implement what you learn (not just consume information)
✗ You're looking for a spa vacation with light conversation about "self-care" and "self-love"
✗ If you're married: You believe your husband is 100% the problem and you have nothing to examine in yourself
✗ If you're single: You believe all men are trash and you're just looking for validation that you're right
✗ You're unwilling to look at how your communication patterns and energy might be contributing to relational distance or attracting the wrong men
✗ You're expecting overnight results without putting in the work after the retreat
✗ You’re hoping to get a 1:1 with sister Nafisa alone most of the time (A 1:1 program with sister Nafisa may be a better option for you if this is what you need)
✗ You're not in a financial position to invest £1,797 comfortably in your growth and relationships
Your Investment in Yourself
£1,797
Extremely limited spots available
(Total of less than 10 spots much of which has already been taken)
What's Included in Your Investment:
The Transformation:
4 intensive in-person workshops with sister Nafisa.
The Elegant Essence Communication Framework™ (exclusive to retreat attendees)
Lifetime access to retreat workbooks, recordings, and integration materials
Private retreat WhatsApp group for ongoing support with your cohort sisters
The Luxury Experience:
4 nights in an exquisite private villa in Marrakesh (shared accommodation)
Most meals included (breakfast, lunch, dinner, + snacks) fully halal with vegetarian/vegan/gluten free options available
Airport transfers both ways with dedicated concierge service
Premium spa treatments designed for deep restoration
All activities, workshops, and experiential sessions
The Sisterhood:
Intimate cohort of like minded high-achieving Muslim women
Curated networking and connection opportunities
Lifelong friendships with women who understand your unique journey insha’Allah
Payment Options
REGISTER THIS NOVEMBER FOR THESE OPTIONS:
Option 1: Pay in Full
£1,797 - Save £100 when you pay in full
Option 2: Payment Plan
£650 deposit + 2 monthly payments of £575 (£1,800 total)
Option 2: Payment Plan
£450 deposit + 3 monthly payments of £450 (£1,800 total)
Dates: April 2026
(Exact dates will be confirmed once you submit your registration)
Due to the intimate nature of this retreat and the depth of transformation we facilitate, we can only accommodate 10 women. Once spots are filled, the next opportunity won't be until 2027.
After clicking the button above, you'll complete a brief application to ensure this retreat is the right fit for where you are in your journey. Upon approval, you'll receive your booking confirmation and pre-retreat preparation materials.
What Women Are Saying About Working With Sistser Nafisa
"Before working with Sister Nafisa, I was exhausting myself trying to 'communicate better' with the potentials I was talking to, but everything I said seemed to create more distance. She helped me see that I wasn't just saying the wrong things. I was speaking from the wrong energy. Learning to shift into my feminine communication style changed everything. This was one of the best investments I’ve made in myself and it’s paying off because now I like the woman I am and how I show up when talking to men. The current one is going very well unlike before so thank you Nafisa."
Hassana K., Marketing Director, London UK
"I was 32, successful, and completely baffled about why I couldn't find a husband. The men I wanted never pursued me, and the ones who did felt 'off.' Sister Nafisa showed me I was operating in pure masculine energy even on dates. Within 4 months of implementing what she taught me, I met my husband. He's a successful entrepreneur, emotionally mature, and he pursued me from day one. I didn't have to chase, convince, or 'prove' anything."
Amina T., Tech Consultant, Texas USA
"I thought my marriage was beyond repair. We barely spoke without fighting. Sister Nafisa didn't just give me communication 'tips', she rewired how I show up in my relationship. My husband said I'm 'different now, in the best way.' We're closer than we've been in 10 years."
Khadija M., Investment Banker, UAE
Your Questions Answered
Q: Is this retreat only for married women?
A: No! This retreat is for both married women struggling with connection and single women struggling to attract suitable husbands. The root issue is the same: masculine energy patterns that served you professionally yet sabotaging you relationally. Whether you're trying to soften with your husband or attract the right man to pursue you, the communication frameworks and energy shifts are equally transformative.
Q: I've never traveled alone before. Will I feel safe?
A: Absolutely. We handle every detail from the moment you land in Marrakesh. Our concierge team and one of the retreat facilitators will meet you at the airport, transport you to the villa, and remain available throughout your stay. You'll be in a secure, private villa with 9 other women and our team. Plus, Morocco is an incredibly welcoming destination for Muslim women. We have the managers at the villa available for further security at the resort and as our tour guides when we go out as a group so all should be well insha’Allah.
Q: What if I can't get 4 days off work?
A: If taking 4 days for yourself feels impossible, that's precisely why you need this retreat. High-achieving women often struggle to prioritize their relational wellbeing because they're indispensable everywhere else. This retreat will teach you how to honour your needs without guilt starting with giving yourself permission to be here.
Q: Can I bring my husband?
A: This is a women-only transformational space. The work we do requires vulnerability and honesty that's only possible in sisterhood. Your husband will benefit tremendously from the woman who returns but the retreat itself is for you alone.
Q: Is this Islamically appropriate?
A: Absolutely. Every element of this retreat is designed with Islamic principles at the core. All teachings are aligned with Islamic guidance on marriage, feminine leadership, and communication. The villa is a private, women only space. All food is halal. We begin and end each day with reflection and prayer time.
Q: What if I'm in a really difficult situation a struggling marriage or years of failed dating?
A: For married women: This retreat is designed for women who are committed to their marriages and willing to examine their own patterns. If you're in an abusive situation, this retreat is not the appropriate intervention you'd need one-on-one support first. However, if your marriage is struggling due to communication breakdowns, emotional distance, or chronic conflict (not abuse), this retreat will give you powerful tools for transformation.
For single women: If you've been dating unsuccessfully for years or keep attracting the wrong men, this retreat will help you identify and shift the patterns causing this. However, if you're completely closed off to dating or marriage, this content won't be relevant for you. This is for women who genuinely want partnership and are ready to examine what might be blocking it.
Q: I'm an introvert. Will I be forced to share publicly?
A: We honor different processing styles. While there are group workshop components, we also create space for private reflection, journaling, and optional sharing. You'll never be forced to disclose anything you're not comfortable with.
Q: What happens after the retreat?
A: You'll receive lifetime access to all workbooks, frameworks, and materials. You'll also be added to a private WhatsApp group with your cohort for ongoing support and implementation. Many women continue monthly check-ins with Sister Nafisa afterward through her ongoing programs if they want continued guidance.
Q: What's your refund policy?
A: Due to the intimate nature of this retreat and advance bookings required (villa, catering), deposits are non-refundable. However, if an emergency prevents you from attending, you may transfer your spot to another woman (subject to approval) or move your booking to the 2027’s retreat date based on availability.
Q: I'm engaged/in a serious relationship heading toward marriage. Is this for me?
A: Absolutely! If you're in a committed relationship heading toward marriage, this retreat can serve you powerfully. The communication patterns we address affect all intimate relationships, and it's actually ideal to learn these skills before marriage. Many engaged women attend and find it transforms their relationship dynamic before they even say their vows.
This Is Your Moment
You've spent years building your career, your reputation, your life. You've invested countless hours, energy, and resources into being excellent at what you do.
Isn't it time you invested in being excellent at being received?
If you're married: Your marriage doesn't need another version of the high-achieving woman who can solve any problem. It needs the woman who knows when to stop solving and start softening. The woman who can translate her strength into a language your husband actually understands.
If you're single: The right man doesn't need you to be smaller, quieter, or less ambitious. He needs you to be fluent in feminine energy so he can feel like the man while you remain the powerful woman you are. That's what inspires pursuit, investment, and commitment.
That woman is already inside you. She just needs the right framework to emerge.
10 spots. April 2026. Marrakesh, Morocco.
This is your invitation to finally bridge the gap between who you are professionally and who you need to be relationally.
Have questions before applying?
EMAIL: nafisatuakilu@gmail.com or DM @nafisaspearlz
The Elegant Essence Retreat is hosted by Sister Nafisa (Nafisatu Akilu) | Trauma-Informed Relationship Coach | Psychology Graduate | Trusted by 167,000+ women worldwide