You're Winning at Everything... Except the Relationships That Matter Most
Everyone sees the successful, put together Muslim woman who has her life figured out. But you still feel broken.
Your LinkedIn profile is impressive. Your career trajectory, undeniable. You've worked hard, sacrificed much, and proven yourself again and again in rooms where you were underestimated.
But here's what no one sees...
The way you rehearse difficult conversations with your mother for days before picking up the phone. The silent tears after another misunderstanding with your siblings. The paralyzing fear that you're "too broken" for marriage, or the quiet devastation of watching another relationship slip through your fingers.
And the most painful part? You know your deen teaches you about mercy, compassion, and the beauty of family bonds. You see other Muslim women who seem to balance it all effortlessly. You wonder: "What's wrong with me? Why can't I get this right?"
Here's the truth you already know but can't fix alone: This isn't bad luck. It's not high standards. It's unhealed relational trauma and it's running your life until you heal it at the root.
The good news? In 6 months, this can all change.
The Truth About High-Achieving Women and Relational Trauma
Why High-Achievers Struggle Most
You've tried to logic your way out. You've made du'a. You've read the books, gone to therapy, listened to every podcast.
But trauma doesn't respond to willpower. It lives in your nervous system, controlling who you're attracted to, how you show up in relationships, and what patterns you repeat no matter how badly you want to change.
The same traits that made you successful are sabotaging your relationships:
Your independence became a wall → Now you can't let anyone in
Your high standards became impossible tests → You reject good men for tiny flaws while tolerating toxic ones
Your perfectionism became self-abandonment → You'd rather be alone than risk being "too much"
You don't have a "man problem." You have a trauma pattern. And until you heal it, your next relationship will be exactly like your last one.
But Here's What Changes Everything:
Relational trauma is actually the EASIEST type to heal, when you know how!
Unlike childhood trauma that requires years of therapy, relational trauma responds to targeted, intensive work with someone who understands:
✓ The psychology of attachment wounds
✓ The specific dynamics of high-achieving women
✓ The Islamic framework for healing
In 6 months, you can transform patterns that have controlled your entire adult life.
Not "manage" them. Not "cope" with them. Transform them.
Introducing: REBUILDING ME
An Advanced 1:1 Relational Trauma Healing Program for High Achieving Muslim Women
What if, six months from now, you could:
✓ See red flags immediately - That toxic charm that used to hook you? You're immune now. You recognize and can remove yourself from games before you're in too deep. Without being broken.
✓ Trust your judgment completely - No more second-guessing, overthinking, or "did I make the right choice?" anxiety. You make decisions from clarity.
✓ Attract completely different people - Not because you healed what made you attracted to the wrong ones.
✓ Set boundaries without guilt - Family relationships no longer drain you. You've created peace without cutting people off.
✓ Walk into marriage healed - Or transform your current one. No more bringing wounded patterns into sacred spaces.
✓ Feel whole for the first time - Not because someone loves you, but because you've healed the wound that made you believe you were broken.
This isn't fantasy. This is what happens when you heal trauma at the root instead of managing symptoms.
How We Transform Your Patterns in 6 Months
Uncover the exact trauma pattern controlling your choices
Map your attachment style and how it shows up in every relationship
Understand why you're attracted to what hurts you (and repelled by what's healthy)
Outcome: Complete clarity on what's been running your life
PHASE 1: IDENTIFY (Months 1-2) Weekly intensive sessions - We go deep fast
PHASE 2: HEAL (Months 3-4)
Weekly intensive sessions - We do the deep work
Heal the root wound at the nervous system level (not just understand it; release it)
Rebuild self-worth that doesn't depend on validation
Develop emotional mastery: feel deeply without being destroyed
Outcome: The old patterns lose their grip. You feel fundamentally different.
PHASE 3: MASTER (Months 5-6)
Bi-weekly integration sessions - You practice new patterns with support
Implement healthy relationship skills in real life
Develop discernment: recognize red/green flags instantly
Integrate healing so deeply it becomes who you are, not just what you know
Outcome: You're unshakeable by the permission of Allah. The pattern is broken for good!
IN 6 MONTHS FROM NOW, YOU WILL HAVE:
Emotional Mastery That Goes Beyond Surface Control
You'll move from being at the mercy of your triggers to becoming the calm, grounded woman who can feel deeply without being swept away. We create a safe container where you can finally express the sadness, anger, confusion, and grief you've been holding and transform those emotions into wisdom and strength.
Heal Your Inner Child and Attachment Wounds
Your inner child is still waiting for someone to see her, validate her, and tell her she's worthy of love. Together, we'll explore your attachment style and give you the tools to reparent yourself with compassion. This healing becomes the foundation for every healthy relationship you build moving forward.
True Closure from Past Pain
Stop carrying the weight of unresolved relationships. We'll guide you through a process of gaining clarity, acceptance, and genuine closure not the kind that requires the other person to change, but the kind that sets you free to move forward with confidence and peace.
Cultivate Unshakeable Self-Compassion
The harsh inner critic that tells you you're not enough? We're dismantling that. You'll learn to treat yourself with the same mercy and compassion Allah shows you, overcoming self-doubt and building the resilience that accelerates your healing.
Reinvent Your Identity Beyond Your Wounds
Who are you when you're not defined by what happened to you? This is where transformation becomes tangible. You'll shed the identity of "broken" or "damaged" and step into the woman you were always meant to be whole, worthy, and radiating from a healed place. This is crucial for attracting and sustaining the healthy relationships you deserve.
Develop Practical Coping Strategies That Actually Work
You'll walk away with evidence-based psychological tools to manage emotional distress, regulate your nervous system, and navigate future relationships with confidence. These aren't band-aid solutions they're skills that serve you for life.
Build and Strengthen Your Support System
Healing doesn't happen in isolation. We'll help you identify and cultivate genuine support networks while creating a sacred space for you to grieve, process, and transform. You'll learn how to ask for help and receive it skills many high achievers never learned.
Deepen Your Relationship with Allah Through Your Healing
Islamic references rooted in Qur'an and Sunnah are woven throughout this program. You'll discover how your healing journey can become an act of worship, how to view your trials through the lens of mercy, and how to use your relationship with Allah as an anchor through the most difficult moments. If this is a test from Allah, you will pass it with excellence, insha'Allah.
How Rebuilding Me Works
18 Private 1:1 Sessions Over 6 Months
Months 1-3: Weekly (12 sessions) - Intensive trauma processing
Months 4-6: Bi-weekly (6 sessions) - Integration and mastery
60 minutes each via Zoom or WhatsApp
Personalised Trauma Healing Roadmap
Tailored to your specific history, triggers, and goals
Not cookie-cutter, this is bespoke transformation
Unlimited Email Support Throughout
Direct access between sessions
Breakthroughs don't wait for scheduled calls
Comprehensive Healing Resources
Trauma processing workbook
Islamic references and spiritual guidance
Evidence based psychological tools
Progress tracking and reviews
Islamic Integration at Every Step
Quranic wisdom woven throughout
This isn't secular therapy or coaching
This is faith-rooted transformation
Investment: $2,600
Payment Plan Available: $433/month × 6 months
Compare:
Secular therapy: up to $200/session × 20+ sessions = $4,000+ (and doesn't address your faith)
Another failed relationship: Emotional cost unmeasurable
Staying stuck: Decades of the same pain
This Program Is For You If:
✓ You're a high-achieving Muslim woman who has built professional success but struggles with intimate relationships
✓ You have strained or broken relationships with family members that cause you constant pain
✓ You struggle to get into or maintain healthy romantic relationships, despite deeply desiring marriage
✓ You know your relational patterns aren't serving you, but you feel powerless to change them
✓ You've tried therapy, read the books, and made du'a but the wounds are still controlling your life
✓ You value your deen deeply and want healing that honours your faith
✓ You're ready to stop performing and start healing truly, deeply healing
✓ You're willing to be vulnerable, do the uncomfortable inner work, and commit fully to your transformation
This Program Is NOT For You If:
✗ You're looking for quick fixes or surface-level advice
✗ You're not willing to commit to weekly or bi-weekly sessions for 3-6 months
✗ You're not ready to be honest about your pain and patterns
✗ You don’t believe you have anything to be to work on and just want to take part to make someone else happy
✗ You're not yet willing to invest in your healing financially, emotionally, and time-wise
I take on a limited number of clients because this work requires my full attention, energy, and expertise. I only work with women who are genuinely ready for transformation.
“ALLAH DOES NOT CHANGE THE CONDITION OF A PEOPLE UNTIL THEY CHANGE WHAT IS WITHIN THEMSELVES”
CLIENT SUCCESS STORIES
The Next Step
If you're reading this and feeling that flutter of hope mixed with fear, that's your soul telling you it's time.
The woman you're meant to become, the one who loves and is loved freely, who has peace in her relationships, who embodies both strength and softness; she's waiting on the other side of your healing insha’Allah
I only work with clients who are genuinely ready and whom I feel are right for this program. This is intensive, transformational work, and it requires commitment from both of us.
Here's what happens next:
Click the button below to submit your application
I'll review your application personally
If we're a good fit, we'll schedule your consultation session
If all goes well, you'll make payment and receive your session confirmation
Your healing journey begins
I take pride in every single client I work with. I'm dedicated to giving my absolute best, and I expect you to show up even when it's hard, even when you want to run, even when the old patterns try to pull you back.
Together, with Allah's permission, we will make the difference.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does it take to see change?
Every woman's journey is unique. On average, clients work with me for 3 months of intensive weekly sessions, followed by monthly check-ins. The women who commit to weekly sessions for the first 2-3 months experience the deepest and fastest transformation.
That said, healing has its own timeline. Some breakthroughs happen immediately; others unfold gradually. What matters most is your willingness to engage fully in the process. The more present and committed you are, the more profound your healing will be.
Trust that Allah has perfect timing for your transformation.
What if I've tried therapy before and it didn't work?
Many of my clients have tried traditional therapy with limited results. Here's why Rebuilding Me is different:
Faith integrated approach: We honour your Islamic values while using evidence-based psychological methods
Trauma-specific focus: Not all trauma informed coaches are trained in relational trauma. I specialize in it.
High achiever understanding: I know the unique challenges of women who excel professionally but struggle relationally
Personalised intensity: This isn't once a month check-ins; this is deep, consistent work with unlimited support
Action oriented: We don't just talk about your trauma; we actively work to heal it
How do sessions work?
All sessions are private 1:1 sessions via Zoom, WhatsApp, or limited in-person appointments in London. We'll determine the best format for you during our initial consultation.
Between sessions, you have unlimited email support because healing doesn't stop when our call ends.
What if I'm not ready to commit to 3 months?
Sister, I understand the fear. But ask yourself: How long have you been dealing with this pain? How many more years are you willing to live this way?
If you're not ready for the full program, I encourage you to sit with that resistance. Often, it's the wounded part of you that's protecting you from hope; because hope has hurt you before.
When you're ready for real transformation, I'll be here. But know that surface-level work yields surface level results. Deep healing requires depth of commitment and insha’Allah when you are ready then can move forward.
Is this program only for people who have experienced severe trauma?
Relational trauma exists on a spectrum. You don't need to have experienced the "worst" to deserve healing. If your relationships consistently cause you pain, (no matter how others perceive it, whether they think it’s ‘‘truamatic enough or not) if you struggle to connect authentically, if you carry wounds from your family or past relationships so this program is also for you.
Your pain is valid. Your healing is valid. You don't have to justify your need for support to anyone. Pray about it and make the decision that is right for you.
What makes your approach Islamic?
Islamic references from Qur'an and Sunnah are woven throughout this program. We'll explore concepts like tawakkul (trust in Allah), sabr (patience), rahma (mercy), and how your healing journey can be an act of worship.
But this isn't just about quoting ayat. It's about integrating the wisdom of Islam with proven psychological healing methods, so you experience transformation in both your spiritual and emotional life.
What if my family doesn't support me getting help?
This is a common concern, and it's valid. Here's what I know: You cannot wait for permission to heal. You cannot wait for your family to understand trauma before you address yours.
Part of this work is learning to honoUr your own needs, even when others don't understand them. Your healing benefits everyone around you. Even if they can't see it yet.